The children leave the house like pinballs, bounce onto their scooters or bikes and spin away up the road, crossing each other's paths once or twice along the way. Mabel abandons hers at the foot of a neighbour's lawn, and runs around the back of the house, where they have an irresistable tub of sand and a variety of toys to play with, and sometimes a small boy or two.
I wander out in their wake, locating her by the downed scooter and wondering what exactly the etiquette is when your child is - permissibly - in someone else's backyard. I don't want to look as if I don't care and am happy to abandon her, but nor do I want to make the adults of the house feel they have to stop and chat to me while we both survey children who are actually mostly just fine without any observation. (Only mostly. Which is why I usually trail after her if she doesn't re-emerge soon.)
We need to get a bench for the front of the house, so that I can "supervise" in comfort while reading a book or making use of the wi-fi connection. Maybe a glass of something refreshingly fruity, some chips and dip...
"I wander out in their wake, locating her by the downed scooter and wondering what exactly the etiquette is when your child is - permissibly - in someone else's backyard. I don't want to look as if I don't care and am happy to abandon her, but nor do I want to make the adults of the house feel they have to stop and chat to me while we both survey children who are actually mostly just fine without any observation."
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My problem is that my children play outside by themselves just fine, but then the 2 year old neighbors come to play with them, and obviously their parents supervise them, and Mr. Quimby thinks that I should then go outside to chat with them. Which although I love my neighbors and LOVE chatting, it's often during dinner preparation time.
Here's the bench I've already picked out:
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It makes up the entirety of my "Mother's Day Wish List."
Now, to search for a sound-proof bubble to put over the bench.....